Bundaberg will become the first community in Queensland to host a new pilot initiative aimed at driving important conversations between fathers, sons and mates.
Dads, Lads and Mates: Conversations That Matter will be held at the Bundaberg Civic Centre on 6 October at 6 pm with a free community barbecue for attendees.
The event is delivered through a partnership between Bundaberg Regional Council, DFV Free Matters to Me Community Group, Edon Place and the Queensland Domestic and Family Violence Prevention Council.
The Queensland Domestic and Family Violence Prevention Council plans to roll out the event in communities across the state.
Bundaberg Mayor Helen Blackburn said Council was proud to support an initiative that encouraged honest conversations, strengthened connections between generations and supported respectful relationships.
“Dads, Lads and Mates is about creating a safe and welcoming space where men and boys can talk openly about the relationships that shape their lives,” Mayor Blackburn said.
“The discussions will explore what it means to be a good dad, a supportive mate, a positive role model and a respectful member of the community.”
DFV Prevention Council Co-Chair Vanessa Fowler OAM said Bundaberg was chosen for the pilot because of its strong leadership and commitment to prevention.
“We know meaningful change happens when communities are ready to lead it and Bundaberg has consistently demonstrated that readiness,” Ms Fowler said.
“Right now, our focus is on making this inaugural event a success and listening to what the community tells us.”
DFV Prevention Council Member Dave Kramer said young people are paying attention to daily actions and that’s why positive role modelling is so important.
“When men model respect, accountability and kindness, we help create environments where violence is less likely to occur,” Mr Kramer said.
“We often talk about the important role men play in preventing violence but sometimes we don’t create enough opportunities for men to come together and talk about what that actually looks like.
“You don’t have to be a perfect dad, mentor or role model but the important thing is showing up, listening, learning and being willing to have conversations that matter.”
Attendees will hear from a panel featuring Queensland Domestic and Family Violence Prevention Council members Dave Kramer, David Egan and Matt Vels alongside Bundaberg Chief Inspector Grant Marcus and Bundaberg State High School student Seth Johnson.
Mayor Blackburn said the event was relevant for men and boys of all ages and backgrounds.
“Whether you’re a dad, stepdad, grandfather, uncle, mentor, teenager or simply a good mate, there is something valuable to take away from these conversations.
“We encourage the community to come along, enjoy a barbecue together and be part of a discussion that can make a real difference.”
Dads, Lads and Mates: Conversations That Matter
When: Monday 6 October, 6 pm
Where: Bundaberg Civic Centre – 190 Bourbong Street, Bundaberg Central
Cost: Free, register on Council’s website.
